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Time, when looking for a Good Woman (this will be defined later in the article), is a valuable asset that should always be kept in mind. You do not want to waste your time with vain, lawless and capricious women, but neither should a Good Woman have to suffer at the hands of a traumatized, weak, slothful, unattractive man who's only reference of women are the dysfunctional relationships that he, and other men, have had with them in the past. You must understand a few things before you can find, what can be called, a Good Woman for marriage. But first, what is a "Good Woman"?
A Good Woman Defined
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A Good Woman is any woman who can rightly have the quality "Good" ascribed to her. A Woman is a biological female person with gametes, XX chromosomes, a high or normal amount of naturally occurring estrogen produced throughout their bodies, and whom in principle have the ability to reproduce with the male sex. So only a "Woman" can be a "Good Woman". Any reference to anything other than a Woman as a "Good Woman" is merely inconsequential and meaningless.
"Good" can be defined with that which is in line with God. therefore, a Good Woman is a godly woman. For those of whom may not have strong religious leanings, "Good" can be defined as that which is morally right, Just, pure, ethical. Therefore, a "Good Woman can also be defined as a Woman who is moral, pure, ethical, has standards and boundaries. This definition is clear enough to get some idea of what a Good Woman is supposed to be, but we need a clearer definition, something more obvious.
Therefore, a Good Woman is any woman who possess those qualities of Virtue, prudence, patience, kindness, femininity, willingness to allow another of whom she trusts to lead her (Husband), caring, thinks about others before herself, modest, humble and intelligent. She many times cares greatly about her health, her beauty, has a deep love, appreciation and respect for her husband and has a deep love for children. A woman who finds children annoying and a nuisance can automatically be disqualified from being categorized as a "Good Woman" because the hatred of children in woman is a very unnatural, and very unattractive, phenomenon and shows a high degree of selfishness and self-centeredness that is not conducive to a long lasting, strong, happy marriage.
She many times is religious, but these qualities can be shown, albeit to a lesser degree, in women who do not have strong religious leanings, though it is extremely rare (Good luck on your search for her, though!). She values family and has a strong desire to start her own. She is a great communicator and has very good judgment. She is reliable, hardworking, honest, loyal, trustworthy, forgiving and temperate. In a relationship, she always tries to make an effort to make you feel loved, appreciated, cared for and desired. She motivates you, inspires you and pushes you to achieve greater indirectly; that is, through her being a great woman, you are motivated to be the great man she deserves. She tends to prefer to stay home, though if she does go out, she will go out with a few close friends or family members; in short, she is not a party goer/ party girl.
This suffices as a definition of what constitutes a good woman. Much more can be said on this, but that goes beyond the scope of this article, and others more equipped than I can say it with much more clarity and brevity than I have here. All these things do indeed sound like what most sane Men want in a woman, that is, the woman they want to stay with for the rest of their lives. But why have you not found them? Where are they? Do they even exist?
You're Not Looking for a Good Woman
Now is the time for brute honesty with you lot. You, as a Man, cannot find a good woman because you are not looking for a good woman. That is, you are simply looking for a woman who is pretty. There are plenty of woman who are pretty, there aren't a lot of them, at least nowadays, who are good women. The fact that you are doing this shows two things:
- You are a simp
- You do not have high enough standards for the women you deal with (You are a simp)
Firstly, you need to question why are you a simp? The most likely explanation is that you are starved for female attention and place your value in whether or not they find you attractive. Do not mistake me for saying that the desire to want to be physically appealing to women (I will talk to about this more later) is a bad one, rather, I am saying that placing your value as a person in whether women desire you or not is bad. You can want to be more physically attractive to women without placing your whole value on whether or not they find you attractive. A second likely explanation is that you watch a lot of porn. Doubtless you know the dangers of porn (If you do not, I recommend reading this page.) so I shan't go into details. One thing porn does is make you an addict to pleasure. Pleasure isn't a vice, but the love of pleasure is. It is also a crippling desire. It hampers and stultifies growth; growth that is needed to mature into the man that you need to become to attract a good woman, to gain discipline, and to achieve your goals in life. Moreover, because the pleasure you derive from pornography comes from the women on the screen, therefore you become a slave to the pleasure that women give you from the screen (Which isn't real pleasure from a woman, but fake pleasure) and, therefore, become a slave to women in general. One thing a Good Woman does not like, nor deserves, is a desperate man. A man with no discipline, principles or standards for himself is not a man but a dog. Stop being a dog and become a Man, that is, if you want to find a good woman. Stop watching pornography, to stop being a slave to women, to stop being a slave to pleasure, that is, if you want to find a good woman.
Secondly, you need to raise your standards for the women that you deal with. You have most likely been ok with the women you have delt with; accepting whatever manner of disrespect they throw at you. I mean to say that you have been ok with dealing with women who do not respect you or like you enough to respect you. This is most likely either because you are not a Man that demands or is deserving of respect, or your standards have been so low for so long that you have gotten used to the quality of women you tend to deal with. But this is absurd! You willingly deal with women that are no good, or are no good for you, who do not respect you, who do not like you, and yet, you wonder why you cannot find a good woman to settle down with! Goofball, you are! You ask for a 5-star steak and are satisfied with the leftovers from work! Raise your standards for the types of women you deal with if you want to find a good woman. Look for a good woman, do not just say that you want a good woman.
Raising one's standards for the Women they decide to deal with, though, necessarily requires that they raise the standards that they have for themselves. Indeed, it is only fair! A good woman should not have to deal with anybody, but with somebody of worth, someone she is attracted to.
The Type of Man You Must Be (Or Become) To Attract a Good Woman
This leads into the next section of the article, how to attract a good woman. Firstly, you must be attractive. This means getting, and staying in the gym, consistent and good grooming habits, an attractive style and a masculine frame. If you do not have any of these things yet, you must get to work! You cannot be angry at women for not being attracted to you, dear brothers. You are not unattractive for no reason. No, that would be too easy of an excuse; it would assume that there isn't anything you can do about it! You are unattractive for any number of reasons, whether you are fat, skinny, need a haircut or have little to no grooming habits or, worse yet, have terrible social skills. If you are, or have been, rejected by what you can rightly call a good woman, then accept it, improve and move on. You must be constantly improving to become the Man that a good woman is both attracted to and deserving of; this is the only way to get what you truly want. What reason does a young, pretty girl who has worked hard to keep herself high-quality have to stay with a fat, unattractive, porn addicted, incel with no social skills! LOL, bro you're a goofy goober if you think your deserving of such a girl! So, here are a few tips, which you have doubtless already heard before, to increase in attractiveness:
- Gain muscle, Loose fat. That is, go to the gym. Getting to a lower body fat percentage will allow you to gain muscle faster, and will accentuate your jawline, if you have one. Men who are at a lower body fat percentage tend to be more attractive. You will most likely increase in attractiveness, or become attractive, if you decrease your body fat percentage.
- Have good grooming habits. Get a haircut, trim or shave your beard, etc.
- Brush your teeth, whiten your teeth etc.
- Take care of your skin
And myriad other things that you can do to increase your attractiveness. Along with this, having a masculine frame, that is, being in control of your emotions, not overreacting to every situation, being strong and not weak, being confident, competent and motivated and ambitions, charismatic and socially competent are all things that increases a man's attractiveness.
Secondly, you must be financially stable, that is, you must have a job or vocation. It really doesn't matter what job it is, just as long as you are working. You as a man are obligated to provide and if anyone is worth providing for, it is a good woman.
Thirdly, you must be Virtuous man. A man without virtue is like an animal without training, a wild beast. You must practice virtue to be a masculine man, and a good man to your good woman. You must be strong, courageous, competent, confident, ambitious, motivated, caring, reliable and trustworthy.
Fourthly, to be able to effectively do all of these things. you MUST rid yourself of your resentment of women.
Dealing With Your Bitterness Towards Women
We get it, you've been rejected, let down, cheated on and whatever else. All have probably been the cause of women. You may be angry at them; you may be resentful of them. That is understandable. Those are terrible women you have probably been with, that is not the good woman you are going to be with. One thing you cannot do is resent women. Resentment, especially of women, is not good for growth. Your resentment of women will most certainly drive away a good woman. She will reject you. You shouldn't get mad if that happens. Let us put things into perspective. Consider two 18-year-olds, both working at, say, Walmart, both virgins, both relatively healthy, one boy and one girl. In terms of value, worth and sought-after-ness, the girl is lightyears ahead of the young man, indeed, ahead of most young men. Her value is naturally high than the boys by virtue of her being a woman. Therefore, she is not obligated to get with the boy who is "the same" as her (although, not really), who she many times may not even be attracted to, and that is ok. Do not be angry at that truth.
The only thing you can do is constantly improve in every way possible and become the man that is the object of her desire, if you really want a good woman. She has done her part to maintain being the woman who is the object of your desire. You should do the same.
Conclusion
This concludes the article. This should suffice as a guide of sorts for the man who wants to find a good woman. This will indeed take time, effort, patience and consistency. If a good woman is really something that you want, that is, the result you want to transpire, then you must put in the effort and work to make yourself the type of man that is deserving of that caliber of woman. The results one wants to achieve is dependent upon the actions one takes to achieve them. Therefore, desired results require requisite action. This is the only way you can move forward and achieve your desired results. Therefore, act.
